Testing Compatibility in Relationships

Within a relationship, compatibility can be described as congeniality or, at least, agreement. This does not necessarily mean that each individual has to be the same to get on well together, but it does imply that where there are differences, agreement can be reached and a relationship can be sustained.

The common term "agree to disagree" describes how people can have differences and yet agree to recognize those differences but continue their association.  Having different characteristics and opinions does not always allow for a harmonious relationship, but neither does it always mean a relationship is not possible.

When seeking compatibility within a relationship, it would make sense to start by recognizing what individual behaviors and opinions will be brought to the relationship, and testing what their impact might be.  A simple way to begin would be to consider a behavior which would be important within the relationship, (for example, communication), and to assess each individual's preferred manifestation of that behavior. Plotting people's behavioral tendencies for comparative purposes is a useful tool in assessing potential compatibility.

Management by Color is a simple online tool you can use to assess and "color" your own and others predominant behaviors, and obtain simple visual results with practical relationship advice for use in any setting where compatibility is important.  It is a non-judgmental compatibility test which offers advice on the results of the variety and intensity of combinations, and can be used in any environment where relationship dynamics are of interest.